Friday, July 04, 2008
Compassion in Action
For Jesus, compassion always led to action. We see an amazing example of this in Luke 7:11-17. Jesus and His disciples were approaching the city of Nain, when out came a funeral prossession. Verse 12 indicates, "a dead man was being carried out, the only son of his mother, and she was a widow". In that era a woman with no husband and no sons was in a very desperate situation. Jesus knew this and felt compassion for her (verse 13), compassion that led to action. He raised the son back to life. What an amazing miracle! This woman was not seeking his help, there is no indication she even knew who Jesus was, or believed in him. Yet Jesus acted out of sheer and utter compassion. He didn't just feel sympathy, like I would. He didn't just desire to help, like I might. He took action.
We see many other examples of this in the gospels.
In Matthew 15:36 Jesus says, "I feel compassion for the multitude, because they have remained with Me now three days and have nothing to eat...", and then he miraculously feeds the 4,000.
Matthew 20:29-34 tells of two blind men who cry out to Jesus for mercy. His response is in verse 34: And moved with compassion, Jesus touched their eyes; and immediately they regained their sight and followed Him. The compassion of Jesus led to action.
Mark 6:34 records, And when He went ashore, He saw a great multitude, and He felt compassion for them becasue they were like sheep without a shepherd; and He began to teach them many things. Jesus felt compassion that led to action, as he taught the people, telling them truth they needed to hear.
For Jesus, compassion was not just about feeling for hurting people. It was more than a desire to help. It was action. I pray that might be a growing reality in my life as well.
Friday, June 27, 2008
Psalms: Shout it Out!
Psalm 9:1 I will give thanks to the Lord with all my heart; I will tell of all Thy wonders.
Psalm 35:28 And my tongue shall declare Thy righteousness and Thy praise all day long.
Psalm 71:15 My mouth shall tell of Thy righteousness, and of Thy salvation all day long.
Psalm 96:2-3 Sing to the Lord, bless His name; Proclaim good tidings of His salvation from day to day. Tell of His glory among the nations, His wonderful deeds among all the peoples.
Psalm 145:6-7 And men shall speak of the power of Thine awesome acts; and I will tell of Thy greatness. They shall eagerly utter the memory of Thine abundant goodness, and shall shout joyfully of Thy righteousness.
Let's be faithful to eagerly proclaim God's greatness and the salvation that only He can give.
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
Telling it Like it is
I have also read about it in Luke. We see three examples of 'witnessing' that are definitely not a planned activity, event, or program. It is just people talking about what God has done in their lives. They simply tell what they know.
In Luke 2 angels appear to the shepherds in the fields, and the shepherds go to Bethlehem and see the newborn babe, the Savior, who is Christ the Lord. But they don't just experience it themselves; they talk about it to others. Verse 17 says, And when they had seen this, they made known the statement which had been told them about this Child. Verse 20 says, And the shepherds went back, glorifying and praising God for all that they had heard and seen, just as had been told them. The shepherds were eager to speak out of all that they had seen and heard. We need to do the same.
Later in Luke 2 Mary and Joseph brought the child Jesus to the temple to fulfill the customs of the Law, and one of the people they encounter there is Anna. She gave thanks to God for this newborn Messiah, and she (v. 38) continued to speak of Him to all those who were looking for the redemption of Jerusalem. We need to continue to speak of Him to those we come in contact with as well.
In Luke 8 Jesus heals a man who had been possessed by a legion of demons. This man wants to accompany Jesus, but Jesus sent him away, saying, Return to your house and describe what great things God has done for you. God had done great things for every Christian. We need to be faithful to speak of Him to others.
Let's pray for one another, that we would be be bold and faithful in following these examples.
Thursday, June 12, 2008
Sense and Sensibility: Spiritual Life
How can we display this quality in our spiritual lives? It may seem like it doesn’t fit, or it would stifle our worship or fervency, but that’s not what God’s word says.
In 1 Corinthians 12-14 Paul addresses some problems in the Corinthian church regarding spiritual gifts and worship. His concluding statement in 14:40 says, But let all things be done properly and in an orderly manner.
In 1 Timothy 4:7 we are instructed: Discipline yourself for the purpose of godliness
A woman of sense would be consistent in her practice of the spiritual disciplines, knowing how vital they are to her life. She has a plan for her Bible reading, perhaps journals or keeps a prayer notebook. Her church attendance is regular, and committed. She values the teaching of God’s Word and listens to it attentively. She shows a pattern of spiritual growth in her life.
A woman of sensibility at times will demonstrate a real intensity in her spiritual life. At other times, when she is discouraged or caught up with other pursuits, her walk with the Lord seems empty and shallow. At times like this, she might withdraw from any spiritual activities, until she feels close to the Lord again. Then she will read her Bible and pray, but perhaps with no plan or pattern. Her church attendance and involvement is erratic. She responds to music and teaching with great emotion, but often fails to put what she’s heard into practice.
James 4:8 says, Draw near to God and He will draw near to you.
We must pursue our spiritual lives with discipline and consistency, when we feel particularly close to God, and even when we don’t.
This is really the key to displaying this quality in every area of life.
Carolyn Mahaney says, "One behavior, if diligently pursued, will promote self-control (NIV transation) in every area of your life…It is the daily practice of meeting with God…When we meet with God, we can find peace in the midst of trying circumstances, an eternal perspective where we have lost sight of the truth, and power to fight our battle against sin."
Being sensible, consistently demonstrating good judgment and appropriate restraint, is not a personality trait. It is a command from God for us, that we might act in a manner fitting for sound doctrine, and thus bring glory and honor to His Name.
But our personalities might more naturally be like one of the two sisters in Austen's story. So if you naturally tend to be the woman of sense, make sure you are acting not in your own strength, but in the power of the Spirit. Reach out to others with humility and compassion. If you tend to be more emotional and sensitive, pray that God would enable you to be obedient to Him. Seek to let truth lead you rather than your feelings.
It is my prayer that this quality, which is so important to God, would be a growing reality in all our lives.
Friday, June 06, 2008
Sense and Sensibility: The Heart
Proverbs 4:23: Watch over your heart with all diligence, for from it flow the springs of life.
2 Corinthians 10:5 exhorts us to take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ.
Philippians 4:8: Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, let your mind dwell on these things.
Miss Sense takes these commands very seriously. She is continually reining in her thoughts and emotions. When she has a thought or emotion that is not pleasing to the Lord, she puts that thought off, and instead puts on thoughts that are true, honorable, right, pure, lovely, of good repute, excellent, and praiseworthy. Or to put it another way—when the video starts playing in her mind, of hurt feelings, or worry, or discouragement, or anger, she hits the eject button. She refuses to let her mind dwell on those things. She takes those thoughts captive by examining them in light of God’s word. She guards her heart. Her emotions may be intense, but she strives to keep them under control.
Miss Sensibility is dominated by her thoughts and emotions. She lets them have free rein. She has quite a video collection, and she views them often. She plays that disc of her hurts over and over again. Every wrong done against her is reviewed, and rewound, and played in slow motion. Those anxious thoughts are fed by her imagination and allowed to build and grow. Her attitude of discouragement is examined and analyzed and cultivated, and prohibits her from carrying out the responsibilities in her life, which only makes her more discouraged. If anyone tries to correct her outlook, she moans, “You just don’t understand”. Her life is one big roller coaster, but she has no intention of getting off.
Ladies, this area of life is so important. Our hearts overflow into our words and actions, so we must take this seriously. Let’s be honest here. We as women are emotional creatures. This is something we all have to deal with.
In her book, Feminine Appeal, Carolyn Mahaney says, "We must understand that our feelings are not authoritative. Just because we feel something doesn’t make it true."
David Martyn Lloyd-Jones has said, "Most of your unhappiness in life is due to the fact that you are listening to yourself instead of talking to yourself".
We must stop listening to ourselves, and remind ourselves of the truth of God’s Word. We must be sensible.
Wednesday, June 04, 2008
Sense and Sensibility: Speech
The Bible has much to say about our speech. Luke 6:45 reminds us that our mouths speak from that which fills our hearts. So this is not only a tongue issue, it’s a heart issue. It’s definitely an area where God wants us to demonstrate self-control, to be sensible.
Being sensible in our speech is also what’s best for us.
Proverbs 21:23: He who guards his mouth and his tongue, guards his soul from troubles.
What does sensible speech look like, or should we say sound like?
Ephesians 4:29: Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment, that it may give grace to those who hear.
This verse would describe the pattern of speech for our woman of sense. Certainly she wouldn’t display perfection in this area, but this would characterize her overall manner of speaking.
She would be diligent to guard her tongue.
She would be careful about the timing of her speech.
She would seek to build others up with her words.
She would vigilantly avoid gossip, either giving it or receiving it.
Our woman of sensibility has a favorite verse regarding the tongue as well.
James 3:8: No one can tame the tongue...
So she doesn’t even try; her words flow freely. No one needs to wonder about her emotions; her words make them very clear. She eagerly enjoys the dainty morsels of gossips; she just can’t help herself.
Many verses in Proverbs contrast two opposing images; we could label them sense and sensibility.
Proverbs 10:19: When there are many words, transgression is unavoidable(sensibility), but he who restrains his lips is wise (sense).
Proverbs 12:18: There is one who speaks rashly like the thrusts of the sword (sensibility), but the tongue of the wise brings healing (sense).
Proverbs 15:1: A gentle answer turns away wrath (sense), but a harsh word stirs up anger (sensibility).
Proverbs 15:28: The heart of the righteous ponders how to answer (sense), but the mouth of the wicked pours out evil things (sensibility).
God hears our words before we even say them, so let’s commit to speak in a way that will honor Him. We want to speak sensibly. What verse encourages you to speak sensibly? Please share it in a comment.
Friday, May 30, 2008
Sense and Sensibility: Finances
The Bible has much to say about money and possessions. Christ Himself had more to say about money and possessions than about heaven and hell combined. 1 out of every 10 verses in the gospels is about money and possessions.
God says so much about money and possessions because He knows this is an important area of our lives. It is something we need to deal with just about every day. It is definitely a spiritual issue, and an area where we must be sensible.
We need to realize that everything we have really belongs to God.
Psalm 24:1: The earth is the Lord’s, and all it contains, the world, and those who dwell in it.
Haggai 2:8: The silver is Mine, and the gold is Mine, declares the Lord of hosts.
So if everything we have belongs to God, we are merely stewards, or money managers.
1 Corinthians 4:2: In this case, moreover, it is required of stewards that one be found trustworthy
While the context of this verse refers to spiritual resources, God requires this of our physcial resources as well. The woman of ‘sense’ takes this stewardship seriously. She wants to please the Lord with her finances.
Therefore, she has a plan for her finances, a budget. Her purchases are made according to this plan. She gives regularly to the church. Because she plans ahead, she can help those in need.
She isn’t stingy or miserly, but she is frugal. She’s a wise shopper. She has a plan for her meals, and shops from a list. She knows where to get the best deals. She saves up for larger purchases, and sets aside money for those unexpected events—car repairs, medical emergencies, etc. She balances her checkbook and pays off her credit card bill each month. She is content with what God has given her.
Miss Sensibility, on the other hand, thinks budget is a dirty word. She doesn’t think about being God’s steward, she thinks about pleasing herself. She shops according to her desires, not any kind of plan. It doesn’t matter if she can’t afford it. I’ll just charge it, she thinks. She may even hide her purchases from her husband, or lie to him about what she has spent. She shops where it’s most convenient, or at the most popular place, regardless of cost.
She is a sucker for any kind of advertising gimmick. She’ll buy things she doesn’t need because she has a coupon or it’s on sale, and thinks she’s being a smart shopper. No interest until 2010 will sound too convincing to pass up. Her giving at church is pretty much hit and miss, perhaps more miss than hit. She either foregoes giving to missionaries or those in need, or gives to them extravagantly. She is most always discontent, but perhaps a trip to the mall will take care of that!
The reality is we are God’s stewards. The only question is whether or not we are faithful.
What have you found that helps you be a faithful steward of the financial resources the Lord has placed in your care? What money-saving tips do you practice? Please leave a comment with your suggestions.
Tuesday, May 27, 2008
Sense and Sensibility: Time Management, Priorities, Scheduling
The woman of ‘sense’ knows that this is a very important area, so she gives it serious consideration and planning.
Ephesians 5:15-16: Therefore be careful how you walk, not as unwise men, but as wise, making the most of your time, because the days are evil.
To display good sense you must:
--Know your priorities and regularly evaluate your practice to make sure they match.
--Have a prayerfully planned schedule for the day and week.
--Continually be on the look--out both for ways to maximize your time, and time wasters that must be eliminated.
--Remember that interruptions and unexpected events are part of God’s sovereign plan for your day and life, and should be embraced, not fumed over.
--Realize that making the most of your time will involve saying No! to many things, even good things.
On the other hand, time management, scheduling, and priorities may seem like words of restriction and limitation to the woman of ‘sensibility’. She wants to be free to spend her time as her fancy leads her. She has no plan, so she flits from one activity to another, not accomplishing the truly important in favor of the enjoyable or seemingly urgent.
Or perhaps her particular bent of sensibility manifests itself in perfectionism. Her house is immaculate, but her family doesn’t feel like they can be at home there. Her ducks are all in a row, but relationships are neglected.
God calls us to use our time wisely, making the most of our opportunities. That’s being sensible.
What techniques do you use to make the most of your time?
Saturday, May 24, 2008
Sense and Sensibility: Food and Exercise
To take a ‘sense’ approach to our food, we will be governed my moderation.
I Corinthians 10:31: Whether, then, you eat or drink or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.
To glorify God we must be thankful for the food He has given us. It is okay, even appropriate, to enjoy the food He has given us. We want to be good stewards of the bodies God has given us, so we must seek a generally healthy, nutritious diet.
I think it is very easy to see food as a totally non-spiritual issue. But that is a lie. God commands us to glorify Him in all that we do, including our diet.
Elisabeth Eliot said, "We cannot give our hearts to God and keep our bodies to ourselves."
In contrast, a ‘sensibility’ approach to food could take a number of forms.
Probably most frequently we overindulge our desires in this area. Our senses tell us, I want chocolate, or potato chips, or ice cream, or whatever is your own favorite, and, in this case very literally, we feed that desire. We eat not to glorify God, but to please self, or because we’re discouraged, or nervous, or angry, or bored.
But sensibility can take other, more deceptive forms.
We can be zealous regarding our diet, but for all the wrong reasons—such as vanity, sensuality, desire for acceptance, fear of man.
We can become obsessed with healthy eating to the point where it, rather than God, dominates our thinking, discussions, and decision making, and we become judgmental toward others. God wants us to eat in a way that will glorify Him. That’s being sensible.
Miss Sense knows that exercise is good for her, part of a healthy lifestyle. She has a plan and puts it into practice with a reasonable degree of consistency, on days she feels like it and days she doesn't. Miss Sensibility again can go to extremes. She may avoid exercise altogether, or participate only when she's in the mood. Or she may be an exercise fanatic. Fitness is the driving force in her life. She frantically fights against the aging process and is determined to work out like a 25 year old, even if she's 50. Actually she needs to work out even harder, because she still hopes to look like that 25 year old.
In this area of life, who are you--Sense or Sensibility?
Please share any ideas or practical steps you take that help you to be sensible, or self-controlled regarding food and exercise.
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
Sense and Sensibility
Titus 2:3-5: Older women likewise are to be reverent in their behavior, not malicious gossips, nor enslaved to much wine, teaching what is good, that they may encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be sensible, pure, workers at home, kind, being subject to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be dishonored.
This is part of a larger passage in Titus 2, where Paul commands Timothy to “speak the things which are fitting for sound doctrine” (Titus 2:1). The focus here is not on preaching doctrine, but practical instructions for living. In verses 2-10, Paul goes on to give detailed description of fitting, or appropriate behavior for different groups within the church—older men, older women, young women, young men, and slaves.
This instruction is not a list of good ideas for those who want to go above and beyond; these are commands for us so that we will honor God’s word, be a shining testimonies to even our enemies, and make the doctrine of God our Savior appear attractive to others.
The phrase, to be sensible (in the NASB), is also translated to be discreet (KJV), and to be self-controlled (NIV, ESV). As I looked in various lexicons and commentaries, I found all these descriptions:
Of a sound mind, sane, in one’s senses, curbing one’s desires and impulses, self-controlled, temperate
Mature judgment and proper restraint
Common sense and good judgment
A well-balanced, properly regulated mind; discreet and prudent
You can see why the translators had a hard time capturing this concept in a single English word!
To get a better understanding of this concept, let’s look at other places in the Bible where this term is used.
In Titus 1:8 and 1 Timothy 3:2 this is one of the requirements for an elder.
In our context of Titus 2:1-10, this is the only quality required for everyone. In verse 2 older men are to be sensible. In verse 6 younger men are to be sensible. The term in verse 4 which is probably translated encourage or train in your Bible is a form of this same word, literally the older women are to bring the younger women to their senses, implying that the older women are to be sensible themselves. And of course we are looking at it here in verse 5, for the younger women. This quality may seem unimportant, perhaps even a little boring, to us, but it must be important to God if He requires it of everyone. We need to think of it as important as well.
Other forms of this word are used in:
Mark 5:15—After Jesus heals the man possessed with a legion of demons, it says he was in his right mind
Romans 12:3 commands us not to think more highly of ourselves than we ought to think, but to think so as to have sound judgment
In 1 Peter 4:7 we are commanded to be of sound judgment and sober spirit for the purpose of prayer. This verse highlights the spiritual implication of our concept. If we are being sensible, we will realize our dependency on God; it will drive us to our knees.
While this term encompasses the idea of self-control, it is broader than that. A totally different word is used in Galations 5:23.
By looking at the ideas of sense and sensibility from the Jane Austen novel, I think we can see a contrasting picture that will help us understand this biblical concept, and how we can apply it to our own lives. In today’s thinking and language sense and sensibility might seem like synonyms. But in Jane Austen’s day they were opposites. Austen uses these terms to capsulate the two sisters that are central in her story. Sense and sensibility summarize each one’s framework for living. If you’ve ever read the book or seen the movie I want you to picture those two sisters. One is dominated by sense. She seeks to make wise decisions, even when it means restraining her own emotions and desires. It’s not that she doesn’t feel strongly, but she exercises self-control. The other sister is dominated by sensibility—she is totally consumed by what she senses and feels. In modern language, we might describe her as excessively emotional and sensitive. Not only does she not curb her emotions and desires, she eagerly feeds them.
Over the next few posts, I want to look at several areas of life, and paint two pictures--actually, they will merely be preliminary sketches—one of sense, which for our purposes we will embody our biblical concept, and the other of sensibility. As we look at these different areas, look for ways you can put this into practice in your own life.
Friday, May 16, 2008
Holidays: Ideals can be Idols
Maybe you are struggling with a difficult child, or a wayward teen or adult child, and your frustrations and disappointment dominate your holiday.
Maybe your children are grown and gone, and none of them, or not all of them, will be with you on Mother's Day. For most moms, having all the children and grandchildren around her would be the ideal holiday. If that ideal has become an idol, the day can be filled with dissatisfaction and discontent when the crowd is small or non-existent.
The possibilities are abundant, our hearts are idol-factories. So we must guard our hearts. As the next holiday approaches, we must search our hearts for any idealistic and idol-istic expectations, and confess them as sin. We are then free to enjoy the opportunities God gives us with thankfulness, not disappointment. When we focus on pleasing the Lord, and not ourselves, we can always have a happy holiday.
Monday, May 12, 2008
When it Doesn't Make Sense
This isn't an issue unique to our day. Peter faced the same concern. We find one such occurence in Luke 5:1-11. Verses 4-5: And when He had finished speaking, He said to Simon, "Put out into the deep water and let down your nets for a catch." And Simon answered and said, "Master, we worked hard all night and caught nothing, but at Your bidding I will let down the nets." It's easy to imagine Peter's thoughts. "I'm the professional fisherman here, your request doesn't make any sense at all." Yet, out of his respect and love for Jesus, he obeys.
You probably remember what happens next. Verses 6-7: And when they had done this, they enclosed a great quantity of fish; and their nets began to break; and they signaled to their partners in the other boat, for them to come and help them. And they came, and filled both of the boats, so that they began to sink. Jesus was in control. He knew the fishing situation far better than the fishing experts.
The same is true today. God is sovereign. God's wisdom is far above our own. Isaiah 55:6-7: "For My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways My ways", declares the Lord. "For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways, and My thoughts than your thoughts." Romans 11:33: Oh, the depth of the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of God! How unsearchable are His judgments and unfathomable His ways!
We don't need to understand; We need to obey. Peter understood the crux of the matter. In verse 8 he says, "Depart from me, for I am a sinful man, O Lord!" We are the sinners; Christ is the Savior. We are the sheep; He is the Good Shepherd. We are the clay, He is the potter. We are the slaves; He is the Master. We need to obey Him, no matter what.
Friday, May 09, 2008
In the Swim
Not only are we to enjoy what God gives, and be thankful, but we can share what we have with others. So, if this picture looks inviting to you, give us a call, and come over and swim!
Friday, May 02, 2008
Back to Blogging
Last month I was reading in Psalm 119, probably my favorite--176 verses exalting the Word of God. What a blessing! We will be studying it this summer in our women's Bible study; I'm looking forward to it! Here are just a few of my favorite verses:
v.4--Thou hast ordained Thy precepts, that we should keep them diligently.
v.11--Thy word I have treasured in my heart, that I may not sin against Thee.
v.38--Establish Thy word to Thy servant, as that which produces reverence for Thee.
v.92--If Thy law had not been my delight, then I would have perished in my affliction.
v.128--Therefore I esteem right all Thy precepts concerning everything, I hate every false way.
v.140--Thy word is very pure, therefore Thy servant loves it.
v.160--The sum of Thy word is truth, and every one of Thy righteous ordinances is everlasting.
v.165--Those who love Thy law have great peace, and nothing causes them to stumble.
And here's the verse I've been praying this week--for myself, and those on my prayer list:
v.27--Make me understand the way of Thy precepts, so I will meditate on Thy wonders.
I would heartily recommend that you spend some time in this wonderful psalm. If you go to Believers Fellowship, sign up for the summer study, or at least get the material so you can study it on your own.
As you read this psalm, you can't help but notice the whole-hearted devotion of the psalmist to God and to His Word. As I pray verses from this psalm, I trust that the Lord will change my heart, and I might more consistently stand in awe of Thy words. (v. 161)